Self Confidence

Hey guys,
How have you all being? Sorry for my inconsistency,  i really have been so busy but i promise to be consistent henceforth.
So we are going to be talking about SELF CONFIDENCE😆😆 I'm smiling because i really love this topic.


What is self confidence?
Self confidence is having believe in yourself, your abilities and capabilities, not feeling inferior to others, having this inner courage in one self to get going or to be able to do somethings even when they seem as though you can't.

 They say the the difference between GOAL and REALITY is ACTION and for that ACTION to take place,  it requires courage and that courage is what i term SELF CONFIDENCE.Although,  we can't do it all by ourself, there would be criticisms,  discouragements and lots more but that little courage can make a huge difference and prevent us from being limited.

To be SELF CONFIDENT is also to have possibility mentality about one's ability, one's look,  one's action e.t.c. To be self confident is to tell yourself that yes i can do it no matter the odds.

When you have SELF CONFIDENCE, you walk in elegance,you step out as a queen or king that you are,even if people feel you are nothing,  you have confidence in yourself that i am something, no one is better than you telling yourself that God created everyone equally and i can be something good and far better than those who think they have arrived.

Some people mistake SELF CONFIDENCE for ARROGANCE or PRIDE. Self Confidence is giving yourself hope,  making yourself see the reason to be able to take that step to cause a difference but PRIDE is an unreasonable thought of one's own superiority in talents,beauty,wealth etc.
Self confidence doesn't mean you shouldn't be proud of yourself but when it reaches the pint where you see people as nothing or as inferior to you then that means that you are arrogant ignoring the fact that it isn't you doing but God's grace and help.

Lack of SELF CONFIDENCE leads to INFERIORITY COMPLEX  which leads to LOW SELF ESTEEM
 We should never for once feel that others are better than us although it literally might seem so but we should know that we can also be better than them.Therefore, i implore us to try to build our confidence and also surround ourselves with persons, materials etc that helps build us and our confidence.

Although over confidence kills one and also less confidence limits one but i pray that God helps us all to have the accurate confidence we need to commence what we help us make a difference in JESUS name.


I hope this piece was useful to us and we learnt from it.
Your comments, questions,  contributions e.t.c are welcomed😘😘.Thanks for your time. God bless you all😁😁

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