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DEPRESSION

Hey Royalties How have you all been? How has your past weeks been? It’s been a while since I last posted due to school stress and activities but ill really try to be consistent. Depression seems to be the latest thing around town. People who don’t know what depression is claim to be depressed, People who are SAD claim depression. I know there are lots of people that are actually DEPRESSED but then it is something I know that can be sorted out through lots of gradual and consistent process and not feel like that is the end of the road. So today we are going to be talking about DEPRESSION. WHAT REALLY IS DEPRESSION? DEPRESSION is a mood or emotional state that is marked by feelings of low self-worth or guilt and a reduced ability to enjoy life. The devil tries to make us capitalise on our UNPLEASANT situations and make us feel as though it’s the end. A MOOD OR EMOTIONAL STATE IS ONLY BUT TEMPORAL . Truth is things are bound to happen. Things that might seem overwhelming, cos...

R.A.C.K

Hey Royalties, How have you all been? How was your past weeks? Hope all is going well and fine?         I am sure we are all wondering what R.A.C .K is all about. R.A.C.K is an abbreviation for Random Act of Kindness. So I came across the word RACK at school during one of our chaplaincy meeting in school and I realised that most of us truly don’t know what RACK is all about. So we would be discussing about RACK and we would start by simplifying what each word mean. RANDOM is a word that mean undefined ACT is a word that mean the process of doing something or a display of behaviour KINDNESS is a word that mean a charitable behaviour. It is also doing something nice to someone and not expecting anything in return or doing something to and for something without any ulterior motive or having an expectation for reward. It is a voluntary act. Therefore, RACK can be said to be an undefined process of doing something charitable or an undefined displa...

FEAR

Hey Royalties, How have you all been? How was your past weeks? Hope all is going well and fine? So I got to realise that most people are SCARED about one thing or the other, some even go to the extent of living their everyday life in FEAR , some just have this FEAR in them due to uncertainties, some are scared because they don’t know what lies ahead of them,. It’s funny how some are even AFRAID of the future, some are even SCARED because they are not sure if they would be successful or not. So in this write-up, I’ll be talking about FEAR. WHAT REALLY IS FEAR? Fear according to the dictionary is a strong, uncontrollable, unpleasant emotion caused by actual or perceived danger or threat. I’ll define FEAR as a False (form of) Expression About Reality .  Fear is abstract and most times causes us to be tensed thereby impeding upon our normal activities because we won’t be thinking straight. Most people cling to their FEARs because it is part of who they are and t...

WORD OF ENCOURAGEMENT

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WHAT WOULD PEOPLE SAY

Hey Royalties☺☺☺☺ How have you all been? How has your past weeks been? It’s been a while since I last posted due to school stress and activities but ill really try to be consistent. “ WHAT WOULD PEOPLE SAY ” is a common phrase used by most people that are afraid or by people who try to please everyone and prevent gossip behind their back. They try to do everything to please everyone and to avoid people talking behind them. But if we look closely, people tend not to do what they want to do because of WHAT PEOPLE WOULD SAY . Some also dread to take actions that would be of benefit to them and people around them because of WHAT PEOPLE WOULD SAY .  Some dreams are buried because of the uncertainty of WHAT PEOPLE WOULD SAY .  Some even go as far as not appreciating themselves because PEOPLE SAID . Some people try to please everybody because they don’t want PEOPLE TO SAY anything about them or talk behind them. I was once a victim of WHAT PEOPLE WOULD SAY and becau...

Self Confidence

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Hey guys, How have you all being? Sorry for my inconsistency,  i really have been so busy but i promise to be consistent henceforth. So we are going to be talking about SELF CONFIDENCE๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜† I'm smiling because i really love this topic. What is self confidence? Self confidence is having believe in yourself, your abilities and capabilities, not feeling inferior to others, having this inner courage in one self to get going or to be able to do somethings even when they seem as though you can't.  They say the the difference between GOAL and REALITY is ACTION and for that ACTION to take place,  it requires courage and that courage is what i term SELF CONFIDENCE.Although,  we can't do it all by ourself, there would be criticisms,  discouragements and lots more but that little courage can make a huge difference and prevent us from being limited. To be SELF CONFIDENT is also to have possibility mentality about one's ability, one's look,  one's action e.t....

Self Discipline continued

Happy new month people๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ Sorry i missed last week post. I have really been busy but hope you all are doing fine and well. Yeah so we are going to continue from our last post on self discipline.We would be talking about the Emotional, Spiritual and mental areas of life SPIRITUAL:Someone might say how do you become disciplined spiritually or are you meant to be disciplined spiritually. The answer is YES because the bible even says we should be moderate. We should be disciplined in the sense that we should know when to pray alone and when to fast and pray, when to praise and not pray, when to worship, when to give when asked for and not pray for instance someone comes to meet ypu for food and you have but instead of giving the person, you start praying for provision for the person although we should be careful whom we give to because we are in a wicked world nobody said you shouldn't pray besides prayer is communicating with your father which is a two way thing not you only s...

Self Discipline

Hey guys, How have you been? Sorry I'm posting late this week, i have been busy but hope you week has been splendid though? Today we are going to be talking on SELF DISCIPLINE. Yh lately the writeups has been all about self๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†and thats because we need to know all about ourselves, self is our GREATEST ENEMY and is our GREATEST MOTIVATION. Self discipline is taking charge of oneself and will power,its training oneself on certain things to do and not to do.Self discipline is relevant in every area of life be it PHYISCAL,FINANCIAL,SPIRITUAL,EMOTIONAL,MENTAL,SOCIAL etc.You need to set limits and priorities for yourself so that it will help make you a better person.As a person, we need to be moderate in everything we do although been moderate doesnt mean doing less its jus setting limits. In our FINANCIAL life, there should be moderation and discipline in the way we spend which doesnt mean you should be STINGY to yourself, spend but spend wisely not everything is important, try as mu...

Self Appreciation and Self Love

Hi guys, How was your past week because mine was awesome๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‰. I got to learn that some people feel bad about themselves probably because they are not pretty like the IG girls, they aren't trending  or maybe they are too fat and some times feel inferior so thats why this week we are going to be talking about SELF LOVE and SELF APPRECIATION. Self appreciation is giving credit to yourself, hyping and encouraging yourself (because if everybody slys you, you wouldnt sly yourself and if nobody is there to encourage you,  you've got to talk sense to yourself)loving yourself irrespective of anything, telling yourself that there is hope waiting for you in the dark. Self appreciation is looking to the mirror and sayin yeah im really beautiful or handsome.Its being proud of yourself,  picking up your self from your past vomit and not letting your past determine your future tho it might affect it but you keep yourself going everyday and moment. Self love is seeing the good in y...

Power of YOUR decision

Hi guys, How you doing?How is your week going?  Ok so today we would be talking on the power of decision. Some people don't really understand the power of their decision. So let's get started๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜Š Decision is your answer or intended action towards an option or a situation.It's also your choice, firmness of conviction etc. Your decision matters and is the most important in anything or step you take pertaining to your life.Your decisions either MAKES or MAR YOU, IT WEAKENS or STRENGTHENS YOU.Eleanor Roosevelt said "No one can make you inferior without YOUR CONSENT" i.e before people make you feel less,before they make you feel you not capabale or you don't have the ability, before they make you feel you're not pretty or handsome or you don't have the trending body shape, size clothes etc or whatever you would have allowed them to make you feel like that because yeah they may try but if you dont allow them by encouraging yourself,  seeing the rights in y...

About myself

Hi guys, I am Adebolu Ayooluwa, a graduate of Covenant University.I am from Ekiti State. So like i just started this blogging stuff and I'll be talking on all the spheres of life (i.e finance, academics, relationships, health e.t.c) and i really hope u guys would have nice time reading my write-ups and also have a lot to learn from me and feel free to leave your comments, ask questions and they would be appropriately answered.Thanks guys๐Ÿ˜† nifeadeayo.blogspot.com